why its always me??

Why is it the girl only needs to understand every aspect of everything... Why is it the girl only needs to listen all the irrelevant things... Why its always that the girl only needs to compromise on every bit...

Fine every one commits mistake after all we all are human but why is it if its done by us then we need to repay for it and face the repercussions of it for the rest of our lives. Even though people around us has adapted this so called modernization but then why there is still this inequality, partiality, injustice and biasness with girls only... If "he" does something wrong then its just a mistake and even at times he don't even accepts it that he is the one who is at fault but if she does the same then its a huge sin for which she'll be cursed for rest of her life with all the tonts and allegations. If "he" shouts then its fine because he is short tempered, upset or may be hurt but if we do so then we don't have values, manners and we are the one who are impatient and shout or nag for no reasons. But WHY??

The only reason for all this, is that we are girls...

Its always with us that we try to take everyone and everything along with as in an unanimous manner be it initially with our parents then siblings then our life partner and his family. But it does not mean that we are dependent or are only able to lead our lives just because of them... Every time its never give and take policy in every relation, imagine if its like that one say this you dint initiated or did at my time when i was in need so I'll also not do this time for you... huh! come on this thing is then clearly is symbolizing to very popular and correct corporate saying that "there are no free lunches in this world". You won't get anything until and unless you give anything and Specially if you are a girl...... :x

how's life?

Life seems to be meaningless.... clueless... pointless..........
Is it when life starts hitting us so badly from all the right angles, from those right angles which we presumed to be perfect and best for us and for our lifetime. Those presumptions later on gives the feeling of curse, as if some major sins we have committed by just living our life the way we wanted. huh!! Its like whatever all we did, all are our wrong deeds and now we are facing all the repercussions and holding onto all the mistakes. That moment is the base when one gets into the state of delima whether they had acquired any meaning and importance of their own individuality and identity or "not." End of the day one looses  nothing, neither gains anything in this process except the lessons by which they learn the brutal and actual facts and hardships of this life. All this gets us on the edge and push us downhill and downwards. That is when we struggle and fight to find our self, just us and no one else. From that edge then we realise that all the promises are just being made to be broken, all the conversations are done to be forgotten forever, all the love, affection only last for just few seconds. Everything was fake in other words everything can be just summed up in three lines that people changes really "fast", love does not "last" but still LIFE GOES ON.

So there is no need to take any crap from anyone. NO FURTHER, NO MORE. This way neither there will be any baseless arguments, allegations of being disloyal, tonts, nagging  nor there will be the need of justifying your things and yourself. At least we wont feel contaminated and burdened with all the irrelevant issues...

Virgin Mobile - Changing Room

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MO_v_1_jL2k&feature=related

CONCEPT: In the above advertisement they have promoted their new scheme which they have introduced on low calling rates that is local calls 30 paisa p/m and STD calls 50 paisa p/m. But they have shown it through a kind of entertaining tragedy. In this ad they have shown a boyfriend whose waiting for his girlfriend outside the changing room  but while waiting for her, mistakenly his mobile phone slips in some other changing room. So during the time when he was struggling to take it out his girlfriend notice's him and misinterpret it and get mad at him. So due to low rates on  Virgin mobile phones and as he is one of the user of it, he calls her again and again and try to apologize and convince her that there nothing to blame him it was just an accidental incident. Through this scheme of Virgin Mobile Phones indirectly they are trying to convey that now its easy and cheaper to connect with your close ones. 

TAGLINE: Ab aapno se judna asaan. 

Funny Indian ad about AIDS awareness - Courtroom

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHiGK0kXeA0&NR=1

CONCEPT: The advertisement supported by Heroes Project and Star Care are trying to persuade there audience to keep themselves updated and informed. In this advertisement the intended message they are trying to give is that one should clear all their queries they have instead of keeping themselves into confusion and facing the repercussions afterwards. As in the above advertisement, in a courtroom the suspect is being questioned again and again by the lawyer about some mishappening during which he was also present but due to the confusion he does not answer any question and get into trouble due to lack of knowledge. Nowadays, one should keep themselves aware by enquiring and asking their quies through reliable sources rather doing anything without knowledge and suffering after that. In the ad to answer the queries and  question they have even provided a service of ASK, on which one can SMS ''ASK'' at 7827 for any information related to AIDS. By clearing their doubts and queries it will lead to the growth of the society in more healthier manner. This piece of advertising is not promoting any corporation or any product, this is basically dealing with the welfare of the society or we can even call it as Public Service Advertisement (PSA).

TAGLINE: Ask For AIDS.

Very funny Indian ad for Education Times ,TOI - Hair Art

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NQzsUMxpSA&NR=1

CONCEPT: Through this advertisement its clear to comment that one should opt for the job or profession which suits to their profile and education. Opting for the field which is just not your thing or which just not suits your level or profile or education is just wastage of your skills, time and energy. In the above advertisement they have tried to convey this by showing a well educated girl trying to train herself at the men saloon to shave and cut hair of a man, which is even very much clear by the name of the saloon that is 'Madonna Mans Saloon.' Showing a girl who seems to be well educated at the men saloon is a very creative and interesting concept to come up with. The motive of the Education Times through this entertaining way in a lighter form is to convey their message of choosing the right education can be more rewarding.

TAGLINE: Choose It, Before You Loose It.

Funny Indian ad Hutch Eskimo 2 windows live search MSN

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IA9Va3DraMI

CONCEPT:  In the above avertisement they are trying to communicate about the highly speedy GPRS connection of Hutch. They are providing an opportunity and accessibility of searching whatever and wherever the customer wants with excellent speed or quality. Its a creative advertisement with only motion and no words or text. They are showcasing it by a sequence in which a person tries to search on the topic of Eskimos on the Hutch GPRS connection. Due to the result of his search all the Eskimos from various places get all together at the cutomers place with all variations of information on the Eskimos. Through this they are trying to convey the message about they provide their services to their customers in an effective and efficient way to fulfill the needs and requirements related to the demanded search. This can even be automatically understood by as what they say that "search anything".

TAGLINE: Go Live Anywhere Everywhere

Camlin Marker Funny Indian Commercial Advertisement

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKthceSGlyM

CONCEPT: This advertisement highlighted the tradition and culture of India by communicating the essence of the mark of vermillion (kum kum) on the forehead of a married women. In India there are various other symbols which indicate that the women is married like bangles, locket (mangalsutra) etc depending on the beliefs. The other factual concept which they highlighted was "Rudali" which was followed in Rajasthan initially. Rudali's were also known as professional mourners because when the husband use to die, rudali's were the ones who use to strip off all the symbols of the married women as a widow. The widow's were only allowed to dress up very simply in a basic manner without vermillion mark (kum kum) on their forehead. So, in this advertisement rudali's were not able to remove the mark of the vermillion as it was marked by the CAMLIM PERMANENT MARKER which helped her to get her husband back. Through this they are conveying the quality, worthiness and the long lasting effect of the Camlin Permanent Marker in a more entertaining and different way.

TAGLINE: Camlin Permanent Markers - Ab kabhi na mitte.

Very Funny Indian Commercial (TV ad)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LF8GLysjoa4

COMMENT: Another interesting advertisement with hilarious and entertaining ingredients. They have framed it in a manner that it will attract and ecourage everyone to get involved with it. In this advertisement they have creatively choosen the ambience of an organization for their product of a white board marker in which a boss is trying to communicate and to make his employees understand about the stratergy of "change" which they need to adopt for the development and growth of their organization but it was misunderstood and misinterpreted by the employees of the that organization and they all takes out change that are coins from their pocket and put them on the table all together, looking at them and the need or for what the boss asked for, even the peon of that organization takes out all the coins from his pocket. At such situation one really needs an easily erasable marker which would actually help them to make the concept more easier to understand.

TAGLINE: Camlin Markers - Gives You Another Chance

Award winning and funny Indian ad for Glycodin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHlkJ1RIZuo

CONCEPT: In the above advertisement they have tried to prove that their product is best at their quality. They have innovatively delivered their ad targeting all age group people. And on general ground when it comes to India anything and everything is possible. All barriers are broken when it comes to superstitions, all you need is a pandit ji or swami ji or fakir to tell that one thing. In the starting they have picturized a baba who is naming a baby child and how the couple agreed to name their child on the normal cold coughing of the baba. The coughing of the baba sounds comical and entertaining but it becomes a tough fight for the small child. Later on in it the history repeats itself with that child. He and his wife went to the baba with their child and the moment baba was about starts coughing again he gave him "GLYCODIN" so that his child would never suffer as he suffered. Through this they have conveyed their product worthiness and excellence.

TAGLINE: Ab khaasi ka THE END

To Touch, Move and Inspire

Dance is an art form that generally refers to the movement of the body, usually rhythmic and to music, used as a form of expression, social interaction or presented in a spiritual or performance setting.

"The body says what words cannot.”

- Martha Graham

I have been dancing since I was four, it was the first time for me that i gave my solo stage performance. I still remember those five most special minutes of my life. I was  wearing mustard coloured top and black shorts. Those five minutes I danced my heart out on the stage and was least concerned about the fact what people will think or talk about. Will they appreciate it? But nothing affected me or my performance. From that day I don't even remember how many stage performences I have given as solo or in group. All of this has always been a memorable and freezed moments of   my life.

"While I dance I can not judge, I can not hate,

I can not separate myself from life.

I can only be joyful and whole. This is why I dance."

- Hans Bos

 Dance is just not an art or a mere word for me. The moment when I  am dancing I am just out there in some other world where there are no worries, no tensions, no fraudlent or misleading appearances, its just me and my different world which is  just in the exact way I want.

I never started dancing thinking i would learn any big life lessons (it was just somthing cool and relaxing at the time). But there are somethings  which I found as a synonymous in a lot ways between dancing and life. They both consist of movement and motion, of trying to grasp something beyond yourself (this can be spiritual, artistic etc or anything that makes you feel alive, outerbody and lifted) and of enjoying yourself in the process of grasping that which is bigger than yourself. In dance as well as in life everyone is born with differet set of skills. There are tons of dancers born gifted. But, surprisingly, they don't usually equate being the best dancers around. Te best dancers are those who work hard to perfect their craft. And the same can be said about life. It's not usually the most gifted that get far in life, it's the most hardworking.

My style of dancing is Street Jazz, Street dance more formally known as vernacular dance, is an umbrella term used to describe dance styles that evolved outside od dance studios in any available open space such as parks, streets, clubs etc. and Jazz dance is a specific type of dance that includes several dancing styles such as ballet, tap, jazz music and other related dance forms. Jazz dance is also referred to as theatrical dance that is usually danced on jazz music but can be performed on other types of music as well. So you if you really want to be out of the crowd in there you need to be well rehearsed with the routine and train yourself very well and at times need to be spontaneous. Similarly in life sometimes life calls for a schedule – a set routine, and sometimes life calls for that set routine to be thrown out the window and for you to make choices on the fly. A routine in place is mandatory but the ability to throw that routine away and take care of emergencies is also mandatory.

"Dancing is the loftiest, the most moving,

the most beautiful of the arts.

For it is no mere translation or abstraction of life.

It is life itself."

- Henry Havelock Ellis

What everyone wants from Life?

"A table, a chair, a bowl of fruit and a violin; what else does a man need to be happy?"

- Albert Einstein

 Daily life can be made more full of fun and cheering in other words happier. Its just the matter of our choice, it all depends upon our ATTITUDE that makes us feel happy or  unhappy. Its natural every time one just can't have 'The Gala Time', we all meet with all kinds of situations during the day. We constantly go through various situations and circumstances, its again the matter of choice either we can choose the option of thinking about the unhappy events or we can choose to refuse to think about them and instead relish the happy moments. We should not let them to influence and affect our feelings and reactions. The addition of happiness to our lives can only be made by us, if we let outer happenings to influence our moods we become their slaves. We let our happiness to be determined by the outer forces and thus we loose our freedom. On the other hand, we can free ourselves from the outer influences by looking at things more positively and changing our attitude.

What is HAPPINESS?

Happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. It is usually experienced when there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts, and this usually happens, when we do something we love to do or when we get, win, gain or achieve something that we value. It is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction. It seems to be the outcome of positive events, but it actually comes from the inside, triggered by outer events. For most of the people happiness is transitory and momentary because they let changing outer situations or events or circumstances affect it. The best way to deal with it is by gaining the inner peace because as mind become more peaceful, it becomes easier to choose being happy as habit. 

If the person is happy from inside he or she carries an aura with him or her and makes any place out there more energetic, powerful, lively and positive. If one share his or her happiness with someone automatically he or she spreads happiness and make the people around happy. Happiness together encourages a prosperous growth. It is like perfume you can not pour it on others without getting few drops on you.

"Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared."

- The Buddha

LIFE IS AN ADVENTURE, DARE IT...

Worry, stress, anger, fear, depression, insomnia, self doubts and tension are some of the many common problems that can plague our every day lives, making us unhappy and sick, or even more worse. Since each day lost to these problems cannot be replaced, we ought to do something about it rather than sitting and letting things happen.

"Be happy while you're living, for you're long time dead." - Scottish Proverb

"How the time flies" the days go by and then they are years, and  finally then all these years become our whole life. Each daily part of it can be wasted or it can be a pleasure that can be cherished, before it is gone forever. If end review of the day concludes that we are too stressed, too busy, din't have any fun or it was just an another day that has gone then it has been just another lost piece of precious life. We put off all of our enjoyment of life due to the reason been waiting for improved conditions, more money or more time but the trouble is that it might never happen or may be too long in coming. Its very important to accept this time from this very minute as something of very tremendous value will  be gone forever.

Face problems confidently, bravely and improve the situation no matter what state it is. In routine one should enjoy others and thus ourselves.

Be GOOD to feel GOOD.

"All truly wise thoughts have been thought already thousands of times; but to make them truly ours, we must think them over again honestly, till they root in our personal experience." - Johann Von Goethe