why its always me??

Why is it the girl only needs to understand every aspect of everything... Why is it the girl only needs to listen all the irrelevant things... Why its always that the girl only needs to compromise on every bit...

Fine every one commits mistake after all we all are human but why is it if its done by us then we need to repay for it and face the repercussions of it for the rest of our lives. Even though people around us has adapted this so called modernization but then why there is still this inequality, partiality, injustice and biasness with girls only... If "he" does something wrong then its just a mistake and even at times he don't even accepts it that he is the one who is at fault but if she does the same then its a huge sin for which she'll be cursed for rest of her life with all the tonts and allegations. If "he" shouts then its fine because he is short tempered, upset or may be hurt but if we do so then we don't have values, manners and we are the one who are impatient and shout or nag for no reasons. But WHY??

The only reason for all this, is that we are girls...

Its always with us that we try to take everyone and everything along with as in an unanimous manner be it initially with our parents then siblings then our life partner and his family. But it does not mean that we are dependent or are only able to lead our lives just because of them... Every time its never give and take policy in every relation, imagine if its like that one say this you dint initiated or did at my time when i was in need so I'll also not do this time for you... huh! come on this thing is then clearly is symbolizing to very popular and correct corporate saying that "there are no free lunches in this world". You won't get anything until and unless you give anything and Specially if you are a girl...... :x

how's life?

Life seems to be meaningless.... clueless... pointless..........
Is it when life starts hitting us so badly from all the right angles, from those right angles which we presumed to be perfect and best for us and for our lifetime. Those presumptions later on gives the feeling of curse, as if some major sins we have committed by just living our life the way we wanted. huh!! Its like whatever all we did, all are our wrong deeds and now we are facing all the repercussions and holding onto all the mistakes. That moment is the base when one gets into the state of delima whether they had acquired any meaning and importance of their own individuality and identity or "not." End of the day one looses  nothing, neither gains anything in this process except the lessons by which they learn the brutal and actual facts and hardships of this life. All this gets us on the edge and push us downhill and downwards. That is when we struggle and fight to find our self, just us and no one else. From that edge then we realise that all the promises are just being made to be broken, all the conversations are done to be forgotten forever, all the love, affection only last for just few seconds. Everything was fake in other words everything can be just summed up in three lines that people changes really "fast", love does not "last" but still LIFE GOES ON.

So there is no need to take any crap from anyone. NO FURTHER, NO MORE. This way neither there will be any baseless arguments, allegations of being disloyal, tonts, nagging  nor there will be the need of justifying your things and yourself. At least we wont feel contaminated and burdened with all the irrelevant issues...